Alright people, we all have them...they are mothers and admit it, even if you don't want to admit it we love them no matter what and a Momma hug always makes things, just a little bit easier such as: a bad day at school, a boy cracks your heart a wee bit, you and your best friend are fighting, you don't like the teachers at school, you just need a shoulder to have someone listen to you complain about the things you don't want anyone knowing but need to get out...Mom's they are God's gift to us. Admit it, even if you really don't want to admit it, you love your momma.
Some parents have the joy of having more then one little devil er i mean amazing blessing they call children and some are lucky enough or rather are blessed with simply one. The 'more than one child' parent loves their children just as much as the 'i have an only child' parent does, but the 'only child' parent becomes slightly more attatched. As the kids grow up the momma starts preparing herself for her baby-being a boy or girl-to start distancing themselves from them, liking members of the opposite sex, hanging out with friends, rebelling slightly, dating members of the opposite sex, finishing highschool and going to college but they are never really ready for it.
Washington Irving once said "A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsles to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts" this is all true...mothers are there for us when no one else is, and how do we repay her? We grow up and leave her home, the nest the safe place and roost that she so happily and passionately betowed on us. But! No matter how far we go we will never stop loving our mothers, ever...even if they don't believe us. Always will we love them.
Some mothers, those of only children become used to having their child be very close to them, telling them almost everything and trusting them with our most secret thoughts. Our gossip and hurt and love and passion and pain, we trust them with it all and one day out of the blue we change, they don't, we do. We don't tell them everything anymore, I (from personal expericence) and not sure why but we do, and we grow away from them faster then either of us expected but us? We're just growing up, them? Well they feel like we are leaving them behind and forgetting about them. But never, and i say never will we ever be able to forget you, we have a special bond as Mother and Child (in my case Mother and Daughter) we could never forget you ever, even if we wanted to, you may think we are growing up and leaving you never to turn back and never to care again but we see, we see that if pains you that we don't tell you everything and we see that you think we are leaving you behind and living this extraordinary life without our mothers but that is so beyond far from the truth. we will love you and we always think about you. In the back of our minds but in the front of our hearts is "I wonder what momma would think now?"
And do something special tell your momma you love her on a daily basis and tell her just for kicks and giggles, repeat yourself a million times, you may htink it bothers her but trust me, it doesn't she loves hearing those words and say it until she says it back even if she pretends like she doesn't want to hear it anymore, every time you say it, it makes her heart swell. Hug her lots and hang all over her and just breath in the scent of your momma and tell her there is no one else like her, sit with her and gossip or sit with her and just be. But most important tell her you will never forget her and tell her:
A lot of people use the term 'I Promise!' lightly, do you know what the definition of Promise is? "Promise: an undertaking or assurance given by one person to another agreeing or guaranteeing to do or give something, or not to do or give something, in the future" that's a pretty big undertaking if you ask me, most people don't really know the true meaning of a promise, so they throw it around and use it willy nilly; but then there are those some people who say 'I promise' and mean it. You (I am including myself in this, obviously) need to learn to weed out those who are saying I Promise to simply get something from you compared to those who say I Promise because they mean it and love you and want to carry out what they have said. But when you find someone who says 'I Promise' and you can tell that they aren't just silly words keep them close because you need to treasure them and Love them for their everything, their mistakes, past, messups in the future, you need to love them for their everythin; because if you say i promise i'm not going anywhere that is heavy stuff and you need to keep that promise to love them and be there for them till the end. Don't be one of the people that others need to weed out of their lives for silly words, be someone they want to keep in their like, because You Promised.
Guys, I have a questions for you (when I say guys I don't mean in that whole 'hey guys!' i mean as in the male gender) why is it that you feel as though you can do whatever you wish? I'm just wondering, (and yes, i know girls are at fault for this too but this is not what that is about at the moment) why is it that you feel like you can have a girl on your arm, example the girl you slept with last night, nabbed their virginity, or your girlfriend, why is it that you can have them on your arm and alot of you (not all of you, but alot of you) feel like you have the right to hit on another girl, of flirt with another girl when yours isnt looking? Does that strike anyone else as wrong, or am I just old fashioned? That's always something that has baffled me, always you are with someone and evern when they aren't around you need to have the respect enough to not hit on other girls while she isn't around, and if you don't care about her enough to do that maybe you should think about ending the relationship and let her go so she can start a relationship with someone worth her time. But that's my thought, im probably just being old fashioned.
