Not the catchiest title I've ever had, I know. This isn't about catchy though, this is about stating something that is completely and totally true. Either fight for your right as a human being or let your soul be crushed and destroyed beyond all repair. Sometimes it takes a little while to figure out that, yes you are having some problems but number one and the most overused yet still true thing: someone always has it worse and number two: you always have people there for you even if sometimes you don't realize it at first and they would give their lives to make sure that you aren't crushed and destroyed because they love you too much to stand by and see that happen whether you have the energy to stop it yourself or not...
Sometimes it takes getting to 'The Point Of No Return' to make you realize that you have made it through this, you'd like to see what else life can throw at you because if you've handled this then you can handle anything! You feel like until something else hits you and you at that point need your friends to remind you that you can make it through this just as well or even easier than you did with your Rock Bottom T.P.O.N.R. stage and then you realize that as hard as things can get you can make it through when you have a good force backing you up.
Friends are what can make your life worthwhile, as painful as relationships can be sometimes, they take time to form, grow, and then settle into a comfortable pattern, often times it takes longer for that process to happen then we wish it too, but the people we are waiting for are completely and totally worth the wait so we don't mind waiting.
As the very wise grandmother character said in a favorite movie of mine "There will be plenty of people rooting for you to fail...that's what makes it so fun." When you realize that sometimes they win the battle but in the long run you'll win the war it makes it a lot more fun to watch then make fools of themselves while you decide not to care what they think or what they are doing but simply being yourself and having a fun time with your friends. Having a blast watch the people who have made it their sole mission in their lives to make your life a living hell fail miserably while they think they are the cats meow and you and everyone watching them knows they are nothing but pathetic, messed up, little people who need to hurt others to make themselves feel good.
Then there is that moment when you realize your friends were right all along and those people are worthless and even if you did get when you thought you needed to be like them you know that you'd never stoop to their level of low to get it and that makes you feel good. And sometimes feeling good about yourself can bring a smile to your face and help you get through things. Day by Day.
I love you.
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