Monday, January 24, 2011

Stabbing, Lies, and Mistrust

Trust...what is trust? Trust (when used with as an object) : to have trust or confidence in; rely or depend on. Why is it that the definition is so easy to read but it is so easy to obtain?
  Why is it so difficult for us to trust people, but when we finally begin to come around and trust them, even with them knowing that it took forever for them to gain your trust it is so easy for them to break it and destroy you? Why is it so simple for them to stab you in the back and mangle the trust you gave them.
  Guys, this is for you: On behalf of the female persuasion We are sorry! Not to all guys but to the good guys, who care about people who actually have a heart and care that others are hurting and have respect for others (and themselves for that matter). Girls, all alot of us (Yes including myself in that) ever do is talk about the awful, horrible, pig-ish guys but we take advantage of the guys who are sweet and respectful. The ones we keep as out friends because they are protective, sweet, kind, and caring but we dont think about what they feel most of the time. Girls have no right to talk about who this guy hurt her last week and this guy hurt her last month when you could just stop the hurting if you perhaps if you didn't hurt the one guy who actually cared about you and loved and cared about you for you and not for you looks or how you dress but loves your smile and your personality and your heart but you crushed him because you thought he just wanted something and he was pretending to be good and just trying to get something from you, when in reality you just threw away the best thing in your world because he was perfect.
  So girls, next time you think about why a guy has hurt you and why he was such  jerk, and you feel like he used you, just remember, he is keeping love at a distance, he pushed you away and hurt you before you have the chance to hurt him. Thats what people do when they have a problem with trust and they are doing simply what they have been taught.

~ A Katherine

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