Where Matters of the Heart and Mind Intertwine

Who wins out in the end? Your heart of your mind? Often the two are mixed together and it makes matter very difficult. Like for example why is it that girls (being the oh so confusing creatures we are) always fall for the jerks, morons, and awful guys and then wonder why i heart is aching later on? Why is it that we fall for the guys who are always sweet talking and trying to get something from us we run right toward them? We run right toward them and fall head over heals into their arms, and their hopes they will get something out of 'being there for you' and freak out when the word 'no' graces your lips? Yet we still fall for them everytime, and we fall for thief lies everytime they apologize both in mind and heart. Now the second part of this question, why do we run from the good guys? Why when a guy is sweet and tame and loving do we automatically assume there is something wrong with him? Someone who wants to break down the walls you have around your heart, and heal what others have done, and make you feel like you are the center of his world, why do we walk away from those? Your heart wants you to run full force to him but your mind is telling no, and for once, at the worst possible time we listen to it. There's food for thought, why do we assume flaws in those who actually want us and what's best for us, but we see no problems in the morons in our life and then we wonder why we hurt so badly after the entire affair. Think about that next time your mind screams 'no! don't do it run away immediately.' when all you want to do is give in a believe the one who makes your heart soar.